Place the lentils in a fine mesh strainer and thoroughly rinse for 30-60 seconds and let all the water drain from the lentils.
Heat the coconut oil in a skillet. Add the onions, garlic, ginger, and jalapeño and cook for 3-5 mins, until the onions are translucent. Add the carrots and spices and stir to coat.
Once veggies are evenly coated, add the lentils, tomatoes, and vegetable broth and bring to a boil. Reduce heat to a simmer. Cook for 15-20 mins, stirring occasionally until the red lentils are soft.
Add coconut milk and continue simmering for ~10 mins. Stir in kale and cook for 1-2 min until the kale has wilted slightly. Salt to taste.